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During the course of a divorce there are so many unpleasant issues to resolve that it is easy to overlook planning for the care of our children in an event of a personal crisis. Ironically, fully articulated plans for the smooth operation of our employment should an emergency arise are often in place. After years of reliance on a spouse, single parenthood takes preparation. Realizing that your ex might not be available in an emergency situation and taking steps to prepare for such an instance is imperative.
Many working mothers already have effective child care in place as coverage for the time they are in the office. If in fact you have a nanny or housekeeper you trust, make certain her hours are flexible and that she is available in times of crisis. This alternative can be costly since an outside caregiver will generally expect overtime pay for any extra hours she spends in your home or with your children. Family is a wonderful resource. A relative who lives nearby will enjoy spending time with your children and no one but you can offer better care. Friends are often happy to help especially if they realize that the favor can be returned. A strong network of friends and family cooperating with each other is important for any single parent.
Communication with your child’s school is imperative. Should a crisis occur, administrators and teachers are available to help your child understand and cope with the situation when you are not available.
Do not be afraid to ask for help. A divorce is a difficult process. The added strain of an emergent situation can be unbearable without the proper support.